Thursday 18 April 2013

What Does a Man Want from a Woman


What do men want? Has this question ever been answered satisfactorily for the average woman? Only a small percentage of women seem to understand what a man wants in a woman.
The simplicity of what he wants is often the real problem for women...it just seems too simple. Well it's not that simple, there is some effort involved for a wife or girlfriend to learn how to satisfy her man beyond just the standard belief that "all he wants is sex." It's definitely not all he wants, not by a long shot. There are tremendous benefits for all women who learn what a healthy man wants in his relationship with her.
Happy wife, happy life. The happiness of his wife is the key measurement a man uses to determine how well he's doing as a mate. Simple enough. But what if his wife isn't happy?
What if she fails to tell him about the things in her life that she's happy and thankful about?
This fact about what men want in a woman is rather unsettling for countless women. They have a lot more control in their relationship than they feel comfortable with. With power comes responsibility. The pressure can feel a little overwhelming at times.
If his wife continues to be unhappy for a prolonged period of time, it's common for the husband to stop trying to please her. This is the same if she is happy yet fails to tell him specifically what she's happy about. He will withdraw into other activities that he can be successful at. He believes he's not doing a good job of keeping his wife happy.
Happy is what a man wants his girlfriend or wife to be. Happy with the job he's doing as a husband or mate.
But what if the woman doesn't know what she wants to accomplish with her life?
This is a very challenging situation that needs attention. For many women, this is an area that has gotten pushed to the side in the rush of a busy life. Having clarity about your dreams and aspirations is essential so you can convey them to your husband. Without a clear idea of what brings you happiness, your boyfriend or husband is likely to stop trying to please you. It's like trying to hit a target that's always moving or running a race where the finish line is always changing. That's certainly a recipe for relationship ruin.
The dating process can also go more smoothly if this work has been done. You'll be better equipped to find a match because you've thought through what's important to you. If you're vague about yourself while dating, you're more likely to attract men who lack clear direction

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